Tuesday, November 7, 2017

A VERY IMPORTANT FOR THE PRIESTS & RELIGIOUS TO READ AND TAKE NOTE

It is becoming common these days to hear that a priest/Religious has exited the priesthood/Religious life. One wonders why a priest/religious will abandon his calling and head to the world leaving behind thousands of people that enjoyed his ministeration.
*Facts*:
ЁЯСЙ About 20-30% of priests/Religious  exit the priesthood/Religious life annually.
ЁЯСЙPriests/Religious are not superhuman, they can get to breaking points.
ЁЯСЙMost priests/Religious don't have people to pour their hearts to.
ЁЯСЙThe only army that shoots its soldiers and lieutenants without any tangible offence is some  of the Church's authority.
ЁЯСЙPriests/Religious neglect thier own needs to meet the needs of others.
ЁЯСЙA Priest/Religious is an ordinary man in the hands of a mighty God.
ЁЯСЙA Priest/Religious as a human is liable to human weaknesses and failures.
ЁЯШг *WHAT CAUSES BURNOUT*?
*Ministering without being ministered to.
*Lack of delegation.
*Giving in to accusations and criticism.
*Zero retreat and spiritual recollection.
*No leave or vacation.
*Indifference to hobbies and recreational activities.
*Frustrations for personal needs.
* Depression from constituted Church's authority due to lack of understanding of the priest & Religious' needs and intentions.
* Undue punishment on the priest/Religious
*Condemnation of the priest/Religious due to accusation from laity (sometimes) without thorough investigation.
*Uncooperative Parish Council and Associate priests/Religious.
*Vindictive and insensitive Parish Priest to the Associate and parishioners.
*Oppression from "hierarchies" in the area of:  ministry, posting, mission and further studies.
*Prayerlessness on the part of the Priest/Religious
*Walking alone in ministry.
*Satanic counter attacks.
*Lack of indiscipline in regards to punctuality and in relation to complementary sex.
*Lack of accountability in finance.
*Lukewarmness and seeing "HOLY mass" and pastoral works as burden.
*Lack of contentment and inordinate ambitions.
ЁЯСНЁЯП╛How to avoid burnout*
ЁЯЩПЁЯП╗Have a Spiritual Director that you can pour out your heart to.
ЁЯЩПЁЯП╗Take time out from time to time to be with friends and family members.
ЁЯЩПЁЯП╗Cultivate a Pattern of relaxation by engaging in some recreational activities.
ЁЯЩПЁЯП╗Know when to retreat so that you don't surrender.
ЁЯЩПЁЯП╗Delegate wisely.
ЁЯЩПЁЯП╗ Don't be a lone-ranger (wisely relate with other ministers and ministries) you can't survive alone, but be wise.
ЁЯЩПЁЯП╗Relate well with your biological family members and Alma Mater.
ACTION*
ЁЯТЫSend this message to every minister of God that you know.
ЁЯТЫAnd to all responsible members that you also know so that they too can be of help and courage to their Priests & Religious.
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May God sustain true servants of God that Labour day and night in His vineyard.
Love, forgive, challenge, encourage, support and pray for your Priests & Religious

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